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TFC: Misses and Memories – Rev. Dean Miller

Posted on by TFCA Growth Staff | 4 Comments

This Sunday we’ll depart our historic property.  In the midst of the details for the move I’m noting things I’ll miss and remember from my time(s) here.  Below is a short list . . . feel free to add to it below in the ‘Comments’ section.

I’ll remember my first time here for worship, the summer of 1984 as a rising high-school senior.  We only worshiped in the Historic Church then, there was no air conditioning, and while I enjoyed John Yates the service felt like forever, particularly the prayers.  It’s no small irony that I now lead some of those same prayers.

I’ll miss kneeling in both sanctuaries, alone, and praying.  It’s powerful to join the thousands who have done the same through the years.

I’ll remember my sons, shortly after we came here on staff, banging away at their own drum sets (TFC pens and hymnals borrowed from the pews) in time with Matt Brown under the shadows of the organ in the newer sanctuary during an 11 am service.

I’ll miss hearing kids from the Day School run through the halls as I work in my office.

I’ll remember being ordained as both a deacon and a priest here in 2007, and watching my little girl be baptized in 2006.

I’ll miss the blessing of hospitality that has showered out of the kitchen downstairs; dinners, receptions, breakfasts, and always a potential left-over snack for a hungry priest.

I’ll remember leading our Sunday evening service, and finishing with the Compline hymn, listening to the glorious acapella voices of eager young adults praising God together.

I’ll miss knowing that my office was once John’s office, and Bill Haley’s office, and decades of earlier priests’ place to pray, prepare, and study.

I’ll remember standing in Nicholson Hall the winter of 1988 as Steve Skancke explained the plans for the vote on building a new sanctuary, and being in the Yates’ home when John returned with the news of the vote to tell Susan.  The new expansion passed.

I’ll miss giving tours to visiting friends and explaining the gravestones, the Civil War history, the pews in the Historic Church.

I’ll remember the first time I led anything (summer of 1988, as a summer seminarian) in the Main Sanctuary.  It was just reading a Psalm but man I was nervous.

I’ll miss playing hide and seek with my kids in the Historic Church.

What will you miss and remember?

  • Peggy Aderton

    I’ll remember the baptisms with the ever-unexpected reaction of the babies and the gold cross shining in the background. I’ll miss the stream of believers, all unique, streaming forward for communion on the needlepointed kneelers.

  • Elizabeth Law

    The first indication that we needed to come to TFC — snow cones!! We were in need of a really vibrant youth ministry for our children. Our first Sunday was Snowcone Sunday. I left thinking, “Wow! If they care enough to serve snow cones on a hot day, they must really care about our children.” No joke.

    We came to The Falls Church in the fall of 2003, slightly battered and bruised from a previous church experience. We thought we would sit in the pews a while, get to know people,, be quiet. That is not The Falls Church DNA. We were welcomed, whatever we could offer to the church body not only accepted, but embraced. I remember telling John Yates that I felt like someone had laid a huge Banquet Table out before us, told us to come and pull up a chair, enjoy. And we had done nothing in preparation for that table. So what I know about The Falls Church is that it is full of bright, passionate,
    lion-hearted parishioners who love Jesus Christ and carry His message no matter where He sends us. And there are so many people we are about to encounter that need His Message of Love in their lives!

    Some of my best memories are: of the healing services where people come from all over and receive the healing touch of Jesus. Wow! The testimonies known and unknown — well, I am sure there are not enough books in the world to tell them all!

    I also had the privilege of serving on the Vestry when we voted to instruct the parish regarding whether or not to stay in the Episcopal Church. A holy memory is of the whole vestry kneeling in the main sanctuary after every vestry meeting, praying for our beloved church and the decisions to be made.

    The memories of walking out of Sunday service, knowing our good pastor had fed us
    substantial wonderful spiritual food from The Word.

    Walking through the graveyard and discovering a Confederate soldier’s grave that could most likely be a relative of mine — Landon Carter.

    I’ll miss seeing so many people crowded into the Sanctuary every Sunday — busting out at the seams! I’ll miss taking communion and looking up at the empty gold Cross and all that symbolizes. But, in my heart and soul, I know that we are really taking this memory with us! And that makes everything secure, doesn’t it?

  • Carol Jackson

    Peggy said mine first: I will miss the line of prayerful people filing to receive in light-filled sanctuary on Communion Sunday as the silver glistened in the sun streaming in from the Lightwell. I will miss dusting those Lightwell panes, knowing no one would ever see they were dust free for a little bit while Altar Guild worked away.

    A “long timer” just reminded me that Shine Jesus Shine can be a bright bridge between our former light filled worship place and the new tabernacles where we will eagerly arrive…

  • Donna Forester

    Remembering our first visit to the crowded (chairs put up in the aisles) historic church in 1988 and knowing that the Holy Spirit was present.
    Remembering the choir having two concerts because there wasn’t enough room in the historic church for everyone who wanted to attend.
    Remembering the first service in the new sanctuary and later when the organ was installed.
    Remembering all the powerful times of meeting for prayer, in the historic church, in the parlor, in Nicholson and in the main sanctuary.

    I will miss being able to walk to church!

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